DISCIPLESHIP STUDIES, ADVANCED
Module 302: Lesson 2 of 6
Living the Radical Life | Keeping Score God’s Way
True life-success cannot be counted using numbers. When David tried to count his success, many people besides himself suffered great loss because of it. The same can be true for us if we try to count our success in the same way.
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Even though King David was a man after God’s own heart, his life was riddled with periods of deeply flawed judgments and lack of self-control. One of the lesser-known examples of his poor judgment is found in II Samuel 24 and I Chronicles 21. David was undoubtedly the greatest king who ever reigned in Israel. His exploits before and during his reign are legendary. Toward the end of his reign, Satan appeals to David’s pride, enticing him to take a census to find out how many able-bodied men he has available for his army. In demanding this count, David demonstrates three prideful mistakes that cause both David and Israel to endure a terrible tragedy. How many times in our lives do we make the very same mistakes that David did?
Prideful Mistake #1: Ownership
Numbering Israel was a precarious business. Exodus 30:12 emphasizes that God is the owner of Israel, not any king or prophet. In ancient times, a man had every right to count what belonged to him…but Israel belonged to God. If God had wanted His army counted, it would have been His prerogative to order it, not David’s—who only served as steward-king of God’s people. As soon as David commanded Joab to count what did not belong to him, Joab and all the top military commanders immediately recognized this order for what it was—a dangerous mistake. In fact, Joab strongly objected and boldly confronted David by asking, Why should [you] be a cause of guilt to Israel? (I Chronicles 21:3, nasb).
Prideful Mistake #2: Security
Joab, as the commander of all of David’s military forces, also recognized in David’s order to count the men that he was looking for increased security as Israel’s king—seeking to put his trust more in the size of his army than in the size of his God. Joab exposed this very motive when he asked David, May the Lord your God multiply the troops a hundred times over, and may the eyes of my lord the king see it. But why does my lord the king want to do such a thing? (II Kings 24:3, niv). As the commentator Morgan states, “The spirit of vainglory in numbers had taken possession of the king…to trust in numbers and forget God.”
Prideful Mistake #3: Achievement
Since this event takes place near the end of David’s reign, this prideful numbering was also likely motivated by David’s desire to try to measure his achievements over the past 40 years. Israel at this time was undoubtedly much larger, stronger, and more prosperous than it had ever been in its entire history. David wanted the count so he could bask in all his remarkable successes over his “working” career.
It took almost ten months for Joab and the commanders to count all the men throughout Israel. At some point near the end of this needless and ill-conceived census, II Samuel 24:10 (nasb) tells us, David’s heart troubled him. He knew that what he had done was wrong. It’s very possible he always knew what he wanted to do was wrong. But he wasn’t willing to admit it, like we so often aren’t, until after the “deed is done.” As Adam Clarke states in his commentary, “[God] determined that the props of his vain ambition shall be taken away.” So God sent the prophet Gad to give David a choice on how he would be punished for his unabashed, sinful pride. By the time this story ends, David’s wrongful counting resulted in the deaths of 70,000 innocent Israelites. So, what can we learn from this great counting tragedy? The lessons for us are quite profound.
Our Counting is Wrong
When it is Done to Measure How Much We Own
Even though David wrote Psalm 24:1, The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains, the world, and those who dwell in it, he must have forgotten his own declaration and at some point begun seeing himself as the owner of Israel and the one who had the right to count what he owned. You might question, “Wait, isn’t a careful accounting of our possessions just good stewardship?” Yes, on the one hand, it is. Solomon even tells us to, know well the condition of your flocks, and pay attention to your herds (Proverbs 27:23). But on the other hand, if our counting is motivated by the “pride of ownership” and not by a humble accounting of God’s property, our counting, like David’s, will be wrong.
We can all agree that there is a huge emotional and psychological difference between how an owner looks at his own balance sheet and how his accountant looks at the very same balance sheet. And it was this ownership attitude that did David in and will do us in as well. This issue of ownership is the central demand of the gospel. Are we willing to surrender everything, give it all up, return back to the rightful Owner everything we have wrongfully confiscated and claimed to be our own? When we do find ourselves tempted to count what we own, we must remember, it doesn’t take very long to count nothing! Do you count your stuff as the owner or as God’s steward?
Our Counting is Wrong
When it is Done to Determine How Secure We Are
Consider the situations of two individuals who both happen to have retirement plans that are about the same size. One of them constantly watches his account, running projections to determine if he has set aside enough to maintain a comparable lifestyle when he gets to 65 and retires. He always knows the current balance. It was fascinating to watch how he handled his plummeting account when the market most was crashing, and how troubled he was watching his funds evaporate before his very eyes. Now that the account balance has come back, he is much more relaxed, feeling secure that he is again going to be able to “make it” with what he has accumulated.
The other person saw his retirement account as a stumbling block to him fully trusting in Christ for his and his family’s future. He found himself placing his security in the “things of earth” and not in the Provider of those good things. In response to this spiritual self-realization, this person chose to liquidate his retirement account and give all the money away, so he could be better positioned to learn to trust God for his and his family’s future—looking first to Him for their daily bread.
In an earthly economy, the latter individual was just plain foolish. But in God’s economy, he might have actually been the wiser of the two. He had learned that the less he had to count, the less he had to worry about losing, and the more he needed to trust in God and not in riches.
Many seek financial independence so they won’t be forced to depend on anyone including God. Those seeking financial freedom, on the other hand, are seeking freedom from finding security in their material things. Think about it. Are you planning for financial independence or financial freedom?
David counted his men to gain a greater sense of self-security. We can easily find ourselves counting our “stuff” for the very same reason. And when we are motivated to count in order to gain a greater sense of self-security, our counting will be wrong.
Our Counting is Wrong
When it is Done to Measure How Successful We Have Been
A businessman shared his personal story: “I became painfully aware of just how guilty I myself have been of this kind of ‘success counting.’ I am continually counting how many people visit my website each day. I count how many people are following me on Twitter, LinkedIn and Facebook. I watch to see how many people actually read my newsletters. I keep count of how many of our studies we sell. And when the numbers are going up, my sense of success and well-being go up with them. And when, for whatever the reason, the numbers are going down, I find myself emotionally going down with them.”
Sometimes we inadvertently fall prey to one of Satan’s greatest lies in our culture: “Success in life is best measured by counting.” Recently a friend was visiting with a young man who was telling him about a couple of his friends who he thought had become really successful. When he quizzed him on how he determined their success, he gushed, “You should see the cars they drive!” Listen, if we try to measure our success in life by how big, how much, how new, how expensive, or how plush our things are, our counting is always going to be wrong.
True life-success cannot be counted using numbers. As the old saying goes, “You don’t want to spend your life climbing the ladder of success only to realize, once you finally reach the top, that it is leaning against the wrong wall.” When David tried to count his success, many people besides himself suffered great loss because of it. The same can be true for us if we try to count our success in the same way. How many marriages have failed, children been lost, friendships ended, health sacrificed, and moral failures resulted because people were obsessed with counting what was not a legitimate measure of success?
Do you want to avoid wrong counting? Remember these three powerful truths. (1) Our God owns it all. Therefore, there is nothing for us to count. (2) Our security is in our Provider and not in our provisions. (3) Our success is measured by who we become and not what we achieve. If we fully embrace these three immutable truths, we will never give in to the temptation to count. We will instead find ourselves feeling content, secure, and very much at peace. Sounds like the way God intended for us to live, doesn’t it?